My fiance is getting naughtier, and i like it.
I love to be hug and kiss by my guy, my fiance.
He juz learn the art of kissing ( yes that is how innocent he is! ) and he's addicted to it. he can only think of our stolen kisses and nothing else. hehe
And our quality time spent together will really be "quality".
His recent quote "I love quality time"
of cos I set the rules and boundaries on how naughty he can go and I know he will respect that too.
But is true you need some spice and naughtiness in a relationship.
Friday, February 26, 2010
Monday, February 22, 2010
butterflies in my stomach
today is my turn to have dinner with my in-laws. I'm kinda excited yet scare. dunno how will I fare. i hope i can do well.
ahhh...integrating into the Soh family...
ahhh...integrating into the Soh family...
Thursday, February 18, 2010
phone or network?
recently, our phones are having problem. I can't receive the sms he send neither can he receive my sms.
It led to some misunderstanding cos I tot he din want sms me and he tot I did not want to reply him but when we talk it out is actually our phone or network.
As for now, we dun sms anymore but call each other instead.
I'm so glad to have an understanding fiance, and I realise I've change and become more mature. No more jumping at the slightest thing but we will talk things out. And I'm glad he accepted me he way I am ( he had seen me how I behave in front of my relatives and he's ok )and even use the term "lunch with his in-law" how sweet.
He said now we need to integrate more into each other's family, meaning to have meals together more often while we still go round to check out furniture and electronics.
I know he's busy thus I can only wait for him to call me.
Is easier for him to call me then me to call him.
I miss my fiance.
It led to some misunderstanding cos I tot he din want sms me and he tot I did not want to reply him but when we talk it out is actually our phone or network.
As for now, we dun sms anymore but call each other instead.
I'm so glad to have an understanding fiance, and I realise I've change and become more mature. No more jumping at the slightest thing but we will talk things out. And I'm glad he accepted me he way I am ( he had seen me how I behave in front of my relatives and he's ok )and even use the term "lunch with his in-law" how sweet.
He said now we need to integrate more into each other's family, meaning to have meals together more often while we still go round to check out furniture and electronics.
I know he's busy thus I can only wait for him to call me.
Is easier for him to call me then me to call him.
I miss my fiance.
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
CNY & V-Day
so many things happen...
let me recap one day by one day.
CNY Day 1
coincidentally is also V-day.
I started the day by heading to Kallang to my grandma's house. There we had yu-sheng and peng cai...for breakfast, juz a small gathering. Usually after Kallang we would head down to Teban Gardens but this year as I had a relative pass away juz two weeks before, they din wan us to go visiting...so might as well we went home to sleep.
Nite was dinner at Ubi. This is quite a special moment cos it will be closer to the time that he's coming to fetch me (cos is also v-day) as well as meet my grandparents. He bought gifts for them. Anyway my grandparents and aunt and uncles as well as cousins were so excited to meet him. We left a while later to celebrate v-day.
We headed to East Coast. Knowing that East Coast Mac would be crowded (even though I love MaCafe Hot chocolate) we headed towards big splash (the playgroud). Since only Starbucks was open, we settle there, the first floor was crowded and he wanted a quiter place (initially I din know why) so we went to the roof top. He got us drinks then set down and chatted. After quite some time later, he present me with his v-day gift; a bouquet of handmade roses (is pink and is handmade by him personally) I was so touched. And I tot that was it. No ... it wasn't...after some time he took out something else... something small... something square... and is a ....ring box!!!
Yes... he proposed to me. I was really shocked. I din know he would do it so early... juz a simple solitire ring. I teared and couldn't say much. And I said yes... as of 14 Feb 2010, I am engaged to Mr Dezmund Soh Chee Liang and we're planning for our future together.
He did not kneel down or said the words directly but he said let this day be our anniversary, the start of our new journey together.
I know is kinda fast but my mum already expected it. We have already booked our flat hoping we will be able to get it. And we're starting to look around for furniture and electronics.
CNY Day 2 while my fiance had his own visitation to do, I also got a lunch appointment with my mum's third sister family (2 tables) and is at Jumbo Seafood restaurant at Clarke Quay. I ate a lot then in the midst, my mum's god brother called and invited us for dinner, thus my sis and I had to rush over to my aunt place at Sim's Drive and head down to Farrer Park to my mum's god brother place for another dinner at Pu Tian Restaurant. So day 2 is really eat and eat and eat and I've put on 5kg... so that practically concludes my day 2. Could not meet my fiance but we know we got to give each other space.
CNY Day 3 nothing much to do, met up with my fiance and we juz hang around Marina Square and went to River Ang Bao. It was mid noon thus the sun was so hot and I got heatstroke. We went for movie and went back to his place cos at nite RC got gathering also. When we reach his house, I was surprise as his relatives are still there. So in the end I had to meet them, kinda paiseh, yup but went through with it. I got a sudden bad headace due to heat stroke but I was ok after I drank some beer at the gathering to cool myself and he was so worried for me. I couldn't eat much. He drove me home straight away and I slept early.
CNY Day 4 is also mum's birthday. He came to pick us up and we went to the temple. Mum wan to pray for the family due to offending the "tai sui" and she asked me and him to pray together. I let my fiance do all the praying while I juz follow him. After that we had lunch at TPY Yum Cha. The WHOLE family is there. My mum, dad, grandma, grandpa, sis and her bf. And my fiance was saying he's having lunch with his "in-laws" that's so sweet of him. Dad sent grandpa home while mum and grandma and sis and bf went to catch a movie then go River hong bao. He and I went over to HDB to check out the 4-room layout. Get some ideas for our future home. We then go all the way to JB to pump petrol then go down to IMM to see more ideas for furnitures. Really planning ahead. He let me drive back from Jurong back to office. I was quite scare as it was peak hours and there were so many cars on the express way. He commented that I lost a bit of control of the car after I drove my uncle's Avante. haha. Guess I am not so used to driving yet.
I really can't wait for the day when we'll be able to move into our new house and start our own family.
So nice to have a term now, "fiance and fiancee"
let me recap one day by one day.
CNY Day 1
coincidentally is also V-day.
I started the day by heading to Kallang to my grandma's house. There we had yu-sheng and peng cai...for breakfast, juz a small gathering. Usually after Kallang we would head down to Teban Gardens but this year as I had a relative pass away juz two weeks before, they din wan us to go visiting...so might as well we went home to sleep.
Nite was dinner at Ubi. This is quite a special moment cos it will be closer to the time that he's coming to fetch me (cos is also v-day) as well as meet my grandparents. He bought gifts for them. Anyway my grandparents and aunt and uncles as well as cousins were so excited to meet him. We left a while later to celebrate v-day.
We headed to East Coast. Knowing that East Coast Mac would be crowded (even though I love MaCafe Hot chocolate) we headed towards big splash (the playgroud). Since only Starbucks was open, we settle there, the first floor was crowded and he wanted a quiter place (initially I din know why) so we went to the roof top. He got us drinks then set down and chatted. After quite some time later, he present me with his v-day gift; a bouquet of handmade roses (is pink and is handmade by him personally) I was so touched. And I tot that was it. No ... it wasn't...after some time he took out something else... something small... something square... and is a ....ring box!!!
Yes... he proposed to me. I was really shocked. I din know he would do it so early... juz a simple solitire ring. I teared and couldn't say much. And I said yes... as of 14 Feb 2010, I am engaged to Mr Dezmund Soh Chee Liang and we're planning for our future together.
He did not kneel down or said the words directly but he said let this day be our anniversary, the start of our new journey together.
I know is kinda fast but my mum already expected it. We have already booked our flat hoping we will be able to get it. And we're starting to look around for furniture and electronics.
CNY Day 2 while my fiance had his own visitation to do, I also got a lunch appointment with my mum's third sister family (2 tables) and is at Jumbo Seafood restaurant at Clarke Quay. I ate a lot then in the midst, my mum's god brother called and invited us for dinner, thus my sis and I had to rush over to my aunt place at Sim's Drive and head down to Farrer Park to my mum's god brother place for another dinner at Pu Tian Restaurant. So day 2 is really eat and eat and eat and I've put on 5kg... so that practically concludes my day 2. Could not meet my fiance but we know we got to give each other space.
CNY Day 3 nothing much to do, met up with my fiance and we juz hang around Marina Square and went to River Ang Bao. It was mid noon thus the sun was so hot and I got heatstroke. We went for movie and went back to his place cos at nite RC got gathering also. When we reach his house, I was surprise as his relatives are still there. So in the end I had to meet them, kinda paiseh, yup but went through with it. I got a sudden bad headace due to heat stroke but I was ok after I drank some beer at the gathering to cool myself and he was so worried for me. I couldn't eat much. He drove me home straight away and I slept early.
CNY Day 4 is also mum's birthday. He came to pick us up and we went to the temple. Mum wan to pray for the family due to offending the "tai sui" and she asked me and him to pray together. I let my fiance do all the praying while I juz follow him. After that we had lunch at TPY Yum Cha. The WHOLE family is there. My mum, dad, grandma, grandpa, sis and her bf. And my fiance was saying he's having lunch with his "in-laws" that's so sweet of him. Dad sent grandpa home while mum and grandma and sis and bf went to catch a movie then go River hong bao. He and I went over to HDB to check out the 4-room layout. Get some ideas for our future home. We then go all the way to JB to pump petrol then go down to IMM to see more ideas for furnitures. Really planning ahead. He let me drive back from Jurong back to office. I was quite scare as it was peak hours and there were so many cars on the express way. He commented that I lost a bit of control of the car after I drove my uncle's Avante. haha. Guess I am not so used to driving yet.
I really can't wait for the day when we'll be able to move into our new house and start our own family.
So nice to have a term now, "fiance and fiancee"
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Transitions
yesterday I attended CNY svc. tot I dun wan squeeze with the crowd thus ask boss can get time off... and she agreed. kinda surprise but is ok...I still manage to attend 5pm svc.
After svc, helped cg to get seats (though I'm not suppose to) but well once while ok lah. I manage to get them charlie floor seats...hehe. not bad eh.
BUT...sighz whether am i on duty or not, ushers will still report to me. like yesterday i am not on duty but still ushers came and ask me wat to do. then i see the ic can't manage and seems lost, i stepped in and gave instructions.
TH is rite, our ushers can't handle transitions. is so messy and things are not done. something muz be done to properly train them up haiz.
frankly i think i might quit ministry, i dun see a purpose ushering anymore...
After svc, helped cg to get seats (though I'm not suppose to) but well once while ok lah. I manage to get them charlie floor seats...hehe. not bad eh.
BUT...sighz whether am i on duty or not, ushers will still report to me. like yesterday i am not on duty but still ushers came and ask me wat to do. then i see the ic can't manage and seems lost, i stepped in and gave instructions.
TH is rite, our ushers can't handle transitions. is so messy and things are not done. something muz be done to properly train them up haiz.
frankly i think i might quit ministry, i dun see a purpose ushering anymore...
Friday, February 12, 2010
We....did it!
Yes, we did it. We put down our names for our flat at...Punggol Crest!!!
As of 11 feb 2010, we took our first step to our future.
I am still not sure wat the future will hold for us...but still I'm willing to try.
It was so exciting.
Even though we are barely one month together...or actually from our "official" date... he wanted us to plan for a future.
We might or might not get it but is still worth a try.
As of 11 feb 2010, we took our first step to our future.
I am still not sure wat the future will hold for us...but still I'm willing to try.
It was so exciting.
Even though we are barely one month together...or actually from our "official" date... he wanted us to plan for a future.
We might or might not get it but is still worth a try.
Monday, February 8, 2010
Peanut Dumpling soup is so sweet
it is indeed very sweet. Sweet in the mouth, Sweet in the heart.
He knows I like the Peanut Dumpling soup at Beach Road Market and he specially bought it and bring down to office for me.
Awwww...how sweet can it get =)
Bear is a happy and sweet sweet bear.
He knows I like the Peanut Dumpling soup at Beach Road Market and he specially bought it and bring down to office for me.
Awwww...how sweet can it get =)
Bear is a happy and sweet sweet bear.
Saturday, February 6, 2010
thank You for the surprise *hugz*
he's so sweet.
juz reach singapore form JB, he called me.
Chatted a while and I ask him go home rest. He said ok.
BUT...
he actually dropped by office juz to see me (yes and he left his dad in the car to wait for him). oh my goodness...I was so shocked.
I din expect him to come by thinking that he's really tired.
Still he came juz to see me and we talk awhile before I shoo him home (can't let his dad wait too long also)
awww...is so sweet of him
he's really so into me
juz reach singapore form JB, he called me.
Chatted a while and I ask him go home rest. He said ok.
BUT...
he actually dropped by office juz to see me (yes and he left his dad in the car to wait for him). oh my goodness...I was so shocked.
I din expect him to come by thinking that he's really tired.
Still he came juz to see me and we talk awhile before I shoo him home (can't let his dad wait too long also)
awww...is so sweet of him
he's really so into me
Life so far...
has been peaceful, has been happy, has been sweet.
Dun really know when we started, or that it juz happen without us realising. We have been meeting almost every nite after 2230hrs cos I only knocked off at that time. He said it doesn't matter how long we spend with each other, is the quality time that counts. Apart from eating and eating, we tried going to parks, to sit down and juz talk. Talk abt anything in the world, our daily lives, our work lives, our future.
I dunno if I could use the word "our future"
Maybe I am still unsure, maybe there is still fear inside of me.
To him, is "our future" he has nvr been so happy or that cos he nvr felt this kind of love and affection before.
To me, I am still fearful, I dunno wat will others say, I dunno wat will pple in church says, I am afterall, a sorta "leader" in church and here I am with a free-thinker (he not a non-believer). He even had it planned out, we'll do a church wedding, to invite every other relatives and friends while we will keep the dinner to closer friends and relatives. He asked whehter do I need him to convert, Christianity is not a religion, it is a relationship with God, I dunno how to explaine to him but I juz told him is his choice. He thinks so far.
To him, this is his first relationship, his first love. He has not seen the "world" and he tot I am the only one. He tot I may be the only one doting on him. He may be right he may not be right, yet he is so sure that I am the one? Does he want to take that risk?
And juz last nite, he asked me whether am I willing to put down our names for the upcoming BTO...I was speechless (we are barely one month together). I dunno how to answer, a part of me want to say yes but a part of me is still fearful. I was blushing. He knows I am waiting for the ring, for the confirmation, he assured me the ring will come but somehow i still felt fear inside me. I dun even know if I want to intro him to my grandparents during CNY day 1(as it is also V-day, he is picking me up from my uncle's place.) But I told him to meet my mum first, and he say that is a priority. His parents dote on me a lot. And yes they are happy for him, happy for this relationship.
I saw how my colleagues need to push back their wedding due to not able to get a flat, and he's worried too. that's why he asked whether do we want to go for the upcoming BTO (because is 3 -5yrs wait, which is in line with wat "we" or he had plan). I need time to consider. I dunno wat do I want also.
I really dunno. And recently I have this forebearing that I might want to step down from leadership, is not totally because of him, is juz that I have lost the passion for ushering, plus my work timing is so off. I made a prayer, if God allows my transfer to an office hours, week days job to be successful, I would stay on, if not, I would go. There is so much things I wan do for my pple, yet I can't do due to time constraint, I felt so guilty.
Dun really know when we started, or that it juz happen without us realising. We have been meeting almost every nite after 2230hrs cos I only knocked off at that time. He said it doesn't matter how long we spend with each other, is the quality time that counts. Apart from eating and eating, we tried going to parks, to sit down and juz talk. Talk abt anything in the world, our daily lives, our work lives, our future.
I dunno if I could use the word "our future"
Maybe I am still unsure, maybe there is still fear inside of me.
To him, is "our future" he has nvr been so happy or that cos he nvr felt this kind of love and affection before.
To me, I am still fearful, I dunno wat will others say, I dunno wat will pple in church says, I am afterall, a sorta "leader" in church and here I am with a free-thinker (he not a non-believer). He even had it planned out, we'll do a church wedding, to invite every other relatives and friends while we will keep the dinner to closer friends and relatives. He asked whehter do I need him to convert, Christianity is not a religion, it is a relationship with God, I dunno how to explaine to him but I juz told him is his choice. He thinks so far.
To him, this is his first relationship, his first love. He has not seen the "world" and he tot I am the only one. He tot I may be the only one doting on him. He may be right he may not be right, yet he is so sure that I am the one? Does he want to take that risk?
And juz last nite, he asked me whether am I willing to put down our names for the upcoming BTO...I was speechless (we are barely one month together). I dunno how to answer, a part of me want to say yes but a part of me is still fearful. I was blushing. He knows I am waiting for the ring, for the confirmation, he assured me the ring will come but somehow i still felt fear inside me. I dun even know if I want to intro him to my grandparents during CNY day 1(as it is also V-day, he is picking me up from my uncle's place.) But I told him to meet my mum first, and he say that is a priority. His parents dote on me a lot. And yes they are happy for him, happy for this relationship.
I saw how my colleagues need to push back their wedding due to not able to get a flat, and he's worried too. that's why he asked whether do we want to go for the upcoming BTO (because is 3 -5yrs wait, which is in line with wat "we" or he had plan). I need time to consider. I dunno wat do I want also.
I really dunno. And recently I have this forebearing that I might want to step down from leadership, is not totally because of him, is juz that I have lost the passion for ushering, plus my work timing is so off. I made a prayer, if God allows my transfer to an office hours, week days job to be successful, I would stay on, if not, I would go. There is so much things I wan do for my pple, yet I can't do due to time constraint, I felt so guilty.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Long day
Yesterday was a long day
Morning, attended a funeral of a relative. Boohoohoo no CNY for me this year. It was so close. Less than two months ago, was his wife who passed away now is the husband. Too heavy burden for the family as well as us.
Evening, went for ALTC. I dunno leh, maybe I really dun have the passion for ushering anymore. They dun even remember or realise that I am there. Juz kinda ignore me. Should I stop attending the course?
Nite, went down to Parkway and surprise Dezrie. He was so shocked and he got speechless. haha. But I know he really appreciate that small gesture a lot.
Morning, attended a funeral of a relative. Boohoohoo no CNY for me this year. It was so close. Less than two months ago, was his wife who passed away now is the husband. Too heavy burden for the family as well as us.
Evening, went for ALTC. I dunno leh, maybe I really dun have the passion for ushering anymore. They dun even remember or realise that I am there. Juz kinda ignore me. Should I stop attending the course?
Nite, went down to Parkway and surprise Dezrie. He was so shocked and he got speechless. haha. But I know he really appreciate that small gesture a lot.
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